Who Should Be Invited to a Bachelorette Party?

Let’s be honest: planning the bachelorette party is one of the most fun parts of wedding prep. It’s the time to unwind, laugh, and celebrate with your ride-or-dies before the big day. But one major question always pops up during planning:

“Who should actually be invited to the bachelorette party?”

From your college bestie to your cousin you see once a year, it can get confusing fast. Don’t worry—we’re breaking down the do’s, the maybe’s, and the definitely-not’s so you can keep the guest list tight, fun, and drama-free.

The Golden Rule: It’s YOUR party, YOUR people.

This isn’t a family reunion or a networking event. Your bachelorette party should be made up of the people you genuinely want to celebrate with—those who bring joy, good vibes, and zero pressure.

Who Definitely Gets an Invite

Your Bridal Party

This one’s a no-brainer. If they’re in the wedding, they’re in for the bach bash. Maid of honor, bridesmaids, and even junior bridesmaids (if you’re doing something age-appropriate like a spa day)—they’re your core crew.

Close Friends

This includes your besties from high school, college roommates, or your workout buddy who’s basically your sister now. If you talk regularly and love spending time with them, they’re in.

Siblings & Soon-to-Be In-Laws

Sisters (yours and your partner’s) are usually invited, especially if you’re close. Just make sure the vibe of the party suits their style, or consider giving them the option to join for the more chill parts (brunch, spa, etc.).

Maybe, Maybe Not

Cousins & Extended Family

If you’re super close with your cousin and FaceTime weekly? Invite her. If you haven’t spoken since Thanksgiving 2019? No pressure to include her just because you’re related.

Coworkers

Office BFFs can totally be bachelorette-worthy—especially if they’ve been hearing all your wedding updates. But don’t feel obligated to invite your whole department. (Trust us, Janet from HR will understand.)

Friends Not Invited to the Wedding

This is a little tricky. If someone isn’t invited to the wedding, it’s best not to invite them to the bachelorette. It can come off as a gift grab or feel awkward later. Unless you’re doing a super casual local night out and it’s clearly a separate celebration, it’s better to keep the invite list consistent.

Who Shouldn’t Be Invited

The Drama Magnet

You know the one. If someone is known for stirring the pot, overdrinking, or hijacking the spotlight, it’s okay to leave them off the list—even if they’re technically “in the group.”

Acquaintances

Just because you were in the same group chat in college doesn’t mean they need to come to your Vegas weekend. Keep the group tight-knit so everyone feels comfortable.

Pro Tips for Building the Guest List

• Ask Yourself This: Would I have fun sitting next to this person on a 3-hour dinner boat cruise? If the answer is no, they probably shouldn’t be on the list.

• Set Expectations Early: If your party includes travel, overnight stays, or big expenses, make sure your invitees are up for it. Not everyone will be able to attend, and that’s totally okay.

• It’s Okay to Have Multiple Celebrations: Can’t decide between a wine weekend with your best friends and a chill brunch with your sister and future MIL? Do both! Bachelorette vibes don’t have to fit in one box.

Final Thoughts: Keep it Fun, Keep it You

Your bachelorette party should be a celebration of your friendships and your new beginning, not a source of stress. Invite the people who light you up, who’ll dance with you at midnight and hold your hair at 2 AM if needed. (True friends do both.)

Whether you’re planning a wild weekend or a cozy night in with takeout and matching PJs, the guest list should feel good, not guilt-driven. Trust your gut, keep the group genuine, and let the good times roll.